(Above) "First You Build The House, And Then The House Builds You"
Text = Definition of "Home" according to wikipedia
A home is a place of residence or refuge. When it refers to a building, it is usually a place in which an individual or a family can live and store personal property. It is generally a place to provide safety and is used as a center from which people or animals base their daily activities. Most modern-day households contain sanitary facilities and a means of preparing food. Animals have their own homes as well, either living in the wild or shared with humans in a domesticated environment.
Home is also used to refer to the geographical area (whether it be a suburb, town, city or country) in which a person grew up or feels they belong, or it can refer to the native habitat of a wild animal. There are cultures in which homes are mobile such as nomadic peoples. Sometimes, as an alternative to the definition of home as a physical locale (“Home is where you hang your hat”), home may be perceived to have no physical location, instead, home may relate instead to a mental or emotional state of refuge or comfort. Popular sayings along these lines are “Home is where the heart is” or “You can never go home again”.
(Above) "Reaction is Dependent on Time and Place"
Text = Dr. Phils top 5 Parenting Tips
1. Plug In
Make a conscious decision to plug into your kid’s world. You can’t make assumptions about the critical choices that children have to make today because the world they are living in is different from the one you grew up in.
2. Spread the Word
When you talk to your children you’ve got to spread out your logic so that they can see why you’re saying what you’re saying. Research shows us that the amount of trouble kids get into is inversely proportional to the number of words spoken in the home. What that means is, the less you talk at home, the more trouble they get in outside the home.
3. Talk About Things That Don’t Matter
How do you ever expect to talk to them about things that do matter if you haven’t practiced by talking about things that don’t?
4. Remember, You’re the Parent
Children have lots of friends who tell them what they want to hear. They don’t need you to be another friend. They need you to be an authority figure who lets them know where the boundaries of acceptable behavior are. Trying to be his or her friend will only undermine your authority as a parent and come back to bite you.
5. Allow Them A Sense of Mastery
You have to put your kids in a world where they feel a sense of mastery over their own environment. It’s important that they don’t feel
they’re subject to arbitrary guidance or haphazard decisions.
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